The Place of Refuge is a metaphor and will be actual Places of Refuge where parents can learn the latest skills necessary to protect their children from this experience. A curriculum will be developed, patterned after ancient Hawaiian traditions, including healing and forgiveness, and validated by recent brain science. These skills will help children feel safe, protected and loved during this challenging time. Parents will then have specific tools and education needed to divorce in a way that is healthy for themselves and their children, resulting in lifelong benefits for all.